LOSS … !

Loss as we all know is something that everyone experiences in their life at some point of  time, could be material or not but it affects the person who is feeling it. It is the scariest word in the dictionary. Any kind of loss is damaging, at many levels. It is scarier than fear itself. It can be said that human life is over powered by the fear of loss.

What happens to people when they face a loss in life. We constantly live in the fear of losing something or someone, some of us overcome it by not thinking about it and some of us are unable to handle and let that fear overpower us. For instance catching a flight or train and fear of not reaching on time. Fear of losing the opportunity to impress our bosses, parents, teachers, friends lover etc.

People losing their belongings and loved ones in a natural disaster or an accident. Recently a friend of mine, faced immense floods within her state and was completely shattered. She has faced a lot of issues, suddenly waking up in the middle of the night remembering the unfortunate event. This fear of loss in the common people is undoubtedly exploited by few people who literally has mastered the art of domination.

Loss can be of any kind, money or person or relationship or friendship or family or valuables. Any loss that’s materialistic can be recovered from by diverting your mind but the other kind of loss is not easy to recover from.  If someone faces a big loss in life of a family member or a loved one, that event has a very lasting impression. Recently a very close family member lost their partner unfortunately and the void that event has created will take time to heal or may never be healed at all. Losing someone close to you, has such a devastating impact on the person who has lost, that they are disoriented for some time. Also, sometimes unfortunately one loses a person who is still alive but does not care about you, that’s a very uncomfortable and disheartening space to be in.

The only thing that we can do and which forms the basis of life is to move on. Whatever the case, life goes on and the person who lost  someone, has to live with the fact and make that person’s memory a beautiful and  inspiring one so that it motivates to live life instead of letting it pull a person down emotionally, mentally or physically.

LIFE goes on, however good or bad, it goes on and the person has to move on, there is no other option but to move on.

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